As a Veterinary Technician, I have witness euthanasia daily throughout my 36-year career. I want to share a few things that every pet owner should know to help their pets transition.
It’s Okay to Cry.
Please do not apologize for crying. I want you to understand that I understand! The day I no longer feel your pain and do not have compassion for you and what you are going through is the day I must leave the profession I have dedicated my life to.
I may appear calm while working with you and your pet, but that’s because this is what my job requires. I cannot afford to be any other way if I am going to be at my best. Believe me when I tell you I am fighting back the tears, and I understand the tough decisions you have had to make to be here today.
Be there if you can.
I urge pet owners to stay with their pets when they are needed most. “Do not make them transition from life to death in a room of strangers in a place they don’t like.”
“THEY SEARCH FOR YOU WHEN YOU LEAVE THEM BEHIND”
I suggest that even if you have to leave the room, there are acts of kindness you can do to help your pet transition. “It helps to bring familiar items with you, such as their bed, blanket, a familiar scent, and even a toy or special meal.”
Death brings sadness, but being with them is the last gift we can give them for being our companions for all those years.
Keep the collar on.
Your dog has proudly worn their collar all their lives. When collars are removed it can cause anxiety to the pet as they try to understand why it is being removed. There may also be negative associations when the collar is removed, which will also cause undue stress and anxiety. So keep the collar on until they have passed.
Make it a celebration of life.
Bring treats. Laugh and cry. Take the time you need. My wish for you is to allow for one of the hardest days of your life to be easy for your pet. I do promise you that the more you celebrate your pet’s life and cherish the time you had together, the easier it will be to live yours. Cuddle, hug them, cry and laugh and cherish them. They can walk through the steps of Euthanasia with you so that you know what to expect. Ask questions, so you understand the process.
Prepare
This moment is all about you and your pet. Please understand that Euthanasia is a process that requires planning on your part and preparation on our part. If possible, please talk to your Veterinarian and tech before coming to me. Secondly, take care of business ahead of time. When possible. Sign the required paperwork. Pay the bill. Decide on aftercare.
Prepare for your return home.
It is going to be difficult to return home without your beloved pet. Having the company of a friend or loved one may be helpful, a nice long walk on one of the many lovely beaches. Do something for entirely for yourself now.
